I just started reviewing this new reality show with Gene Simmons. "I've been unhappily married for 22 years." What an oddball guy. This'll be an interesting peek into a very unusual family.
Don and Paul have arrived at a gas station with a diner/cafe nearby. Their van is leaking gas. I presume they'll get out of this jam, but I'm not sure how they'll fix a gasoline leak. A Harley rides up at night and sparks their interest in hitting the cafe. They decide to splurge and spend a couple of bucks for some decaff coffee. They meet a nice waitress whose been working there 15 years. They lie and tell her that they're on their way out West to be in the movies. They end up getting some free pie because they are courteous and look hungry.
It's kind of fun how our lives can be such an adventure when we actually go out and interact with other people. Sitting at home fantasizing usually doesn't bring about any results like this, but going outside and mingling with people can bring about all kinds of unexpected results.
I think it's pretty obvious that God wants us to venture outside of our "comfort zones" every once in a while. If we resist, He might even force it upon us. Whenever I'm in a room or a get-together, I usually remember the encouragement of a teacher or leader that told us to talk to people and greet newcomers, trying to make those around me feel welcome. It's usually easier to remember this advice if it's some sort of event I have a part of, like a church service or event at my home church. But if I'm one of the "outsiders," it's harder due to the feelings of shyness.
When I try to treat people as being more important than me, it usually gets me out of my shell and allows me to enjoy the company of someone I didn't know before. It's always cool to see something special or valuable from another person -- whether it's a sense of humor or wisdom or listening to a great story-teller.
I like these times, even when there's nothing "spiritual" about them. I love the opportunities that come sometimes, though, where someone wants to hear a story or "The Story" from me. That's a fun privilege.
Posted by Doug Van Pelt at December 4, 2006 10:50 AM